Anal sex is uncharted territory for most people. It’s the Brave New World, the Final Frontier, the path less traveled, and all that jazz. So it’s definitely something that we need to get familiar with slowly and carefully.
Forget everything you saw in porn or read about in erotic novels. Those show none of the prep and always display people who immediately go for hard, against-the-wall banging the moment they lay eyes on each other. Life doesn’t work like that, you know?
Before we engage in anal penetration of any kind, we need A LOT of prep. You can’t just go straight for the butt stuff, even if you have anal sex every day. What’s more, if you are — good for you — then you know this better than us, right? Butt play is an art form that includes a lot of deep breathing, anal stimulation, sex toys, sex Read More