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How To Find The Right Dildo for Prostate Stimulation

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All your questions will be answered here. We know all about the dos and don’ts of choosing the right prostate massager for you.

A prostate massager can be anything you imagine; that is, anything that can reach your prostate. Your fingers, actual massagers, butt plugs — you name it! Picking what suits your needs exactly can sometimes be overwhelming. So how does one choose with so many options available?

It’s quite simple. Don’t go overboard with size. Yes, not even if you like big things. Start small and work your way up, mind the handle, choose the vibration options. In short, find your dream massager.

Consider the Size Depending on Your Experience Level

When it comes to prostate massagers, it’s all about the shape. Variations in size are uncommon, but they do exist. And the first thing beginners need to pay attention to is the size. Some of these toys will leave you feeling intimidated. But let’s not judge the book by it’s cover. 

There are several types of prostate massagers. Manual type, vibrating type, and “come hither” type. Of course, other sex toys like dildos and butt plugs can be used too. 

So, this is not a regular anal toy for men. Prostate massagers are used for more than just reaching a prostate orgasm. The primary goal stays the same whatever the case, though — stimulate the prostate. Some of these massagers have large heads, and those are for more experienced anal players. Don’t worry, though: if you prefer it big, you can always size up. But it’s smart to start with something slimmer, just in case. 

Speaking of size, prostate massagers can vary in both width and length. Although the prostate is usually in the same spot for everyone, it may be a bit deeper down for some. Those people will need longer toy models. But again, make sure they’re not too wide for you to handle. 

Hands-Free Variants for Convenience or Public Use

Who doesn’t like reaching powerful orgasms hands-free? While it may require some practice, you’ll find it quite easy too. 

Hands-free masturbation can involve a lot of things: butt plugs, some typical massagers, etc. Some massagers do the “come hither” motion. Yes, they move back and forth while inside of you. In doing that, they replace your movement so you can relax and enjoy the ride. 

You’ll agree that this feature makes them very convenient for your solo plays or for your partner to use on you. It’s all about convenience. But what about some public use? If you’re on the freaky side, you can play with these too. 

So how can a prostate massager be used outside? Easy. Make sure you opt for the one that won’t slip out easily because, yeah, that can happen. Also, mind the handle. Some of them can be curved, and you’ll agree that that wouldn’t be very comfortable to sit on. They could also be visible and bulky, and you need something stealthy. Nobody needs to know what you got going on.

Whatever you decide to go for, you’re bound to enjoy yourself.

Vibrating Butt Plugs for Added Pleasure

You don’t only have to use prostate massagers for stimulation. A butt plug, a dildo, even an anal vibrator can be an option.

Some of these butt plugs curve to exactly reach your prostate, and they’re convenient for public use too. You can get your freak on wherever you want. Or just feel some relief, in case you have medical issues. But let’s talk about how you can feel more pleasure. 

Not only do these butt plugs curve, but they can vibrate too. They might not be beginner-friendly, though. Vibrations directly on the prostate can be too much for some. Again, it’s best to start with the basics. 

It’s important to note you should never use the vibrating bullet on its own. Sure, you can. But be very careful. Since it has no handle, it can easily slide deeper than it should. That’s where complications come. How will that thing come out?! 

Vibrating butt plugs, however, are a real joy to use. Take some time to get used to them, and you won’t regret it.

Consider Its Base or Handle for Easy Maneuver

So your prostate massager isn’t just the massager. The handle is pretty important too, and here’s why. 

Some massagers will have you thinking, “Wait, what?” at first glance. How do you even hold that thing? There are two types of handles: a flat handle and a curved handle. A curved handle can look kinda abstract. It can be something that will put beginners off because you just want something that looks simple and is simple to use. 

Flat handles are what their name suggests: flat handles. What suits you more, you’ll have to find out through some trialing. Try to hold, or use, both and see how it feels. Manual massagers do require some maneuvering, so it’s best to opt for something that’ll sit comfortably in your hand. Something that won’t make your hand go numb.

Do a little research on these, and you won’t have any issues at all.

Check Out the Review Section

Last but not least — reviews. Doing a bit of extra research can go a long way. 

We’re all different and feel things differently. We like and feel comfortable with different things. Ultimately, it’s all up to you. But hearing other people out can’t hurt, right? Good reviews are sometimes difficult to find. Take your time with it. After all, a prostate massager isn’t something you buy every day. 

As with anything else, educating yourself is essential. How a product affects other people matters too! Some will sugarcoat it, and some will give it to you straight. It would also be helpful if you took advice from someone you know. See if anybody in your friend group has also used these. 

It might be a little difficult to talk about it since there’s so much stigma around it. No need to be afraid, though. The internet is a wonderful place, after all.

Summary

When picking a prostate dildo that brings joy to you, there are a lot of things to consider. You can use it as a medical aid or a sex toy. It’s up to you.

Either way, it stimulates the prostate. It can lead up to a prostate orgasm. That doesn’t sound bad at all. Especially if you’re using it for medical purposes. You’re sitting there relieving some pressure, and suddenly you feel pleasure too. Prostate massagers are a package deal, at least in that sense. 

Take a leap of faith down the anal-toys-for-men hole. We guarantee it’s a decision you won’t regret.